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How to Spend a Romantic Weekend in Temecula Wine Country

Top picks for intimate winery experiences, lovely wine country inns, cozy dining ideas, and romantic things to do. There are even ways to plan the perfect wine country proposal.

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Romantic Temecula Wineries

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Lorenzi Estate

Lorenzi Estate not only has some of the best wine in Temecula, they also have seated tastings at tables for two outside, right at the edge of their vineyard. It’s an intimate spot, with live music on the weekends.

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Palumbo Family Vineyards

For those who romance just means simple, quiet time together, visit Palumbo Family Vineyards. It’s simplicity at its finest. There’s a no-frills tasting room with a tiny bar and an outdoor patio with picnic tables for taking in their vineyard view. 

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Voux Wines

For a private, more elevated tasting experience, book an appointment at VOUX Wines and sip French varieties poolside at their private clubhouse. Their views of vineyards and citrus groves are idyllic year-round.

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Briar Rose Winery

Disney fans, or those who want a fairy-tale kind of day, should book a reservation at Briar Rose Winery. It’s designed to look like Snow White’s cottage, and there are private tables for tastings. The wine at Briar Rose might not top our list for the best in Temecula, but it sure is a special place. They’ll also help you plan a private picnic or a proposal if you’re ready!  

Romantic Wine Country Lunch

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Domenico’s Italian Chophouse at Truffle Pig Winery

Domenico’s is a beautiful indoor/outdoor restaurant, with everything from salads and flatbreads to seafood and steak. They have some love-inducing shareables too, like oysters on the half shell or Brie en croute if, like me, cheese is your love language. 

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Ponte Winery Restaurant

Ponte’s year-round al fresco restaurant is set in the garden behind the tasting room. They serve Mediterranean-inspired seasonal cuisine like Cioppino and steak and shrimp skewers. While you’re there, take a stroll and enjoy the fountain and vineyard view.

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Romantic Dinner in Old Town

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Small Barn

Small Barn is a mostly outdoor venue in Old Town that serves upscale California cuisine. It’s styled like an outdoor lounge with sofas, fire pits, and twinkling lights. They make some of the best cocktails in town too. 

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Two Travelers Wine Bar

Two Travelers Wine Bar is dark and cozy with an excellent wine list and light dining menu to match. It’s a perfect place to cuddle up in a booth with your loved one, an elegant red, and a table full of shareables.

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Plan A Proposal in Temecula

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ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO IN TEMECULA

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Hot Air Balloon Ride

Temecula is known worldwide for our hot air balloon rides. You’ll watch the sun rise as you soar over wineries and vineyards. Guests can book group or private rides with one of over 10 balloon operators in the valley.

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Private Vineyard Tour

You can schedule a public tour at any winery, but it would be much more romantic to go out into the vineyard — just the two of you — escorted by a private guide. On Danza del Sol’s UTV tour and tasting, a wine educator will drive you out into their 40-acre vineyard where you’ll sip wines amongst the rolling hills.

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Horse-Drawn Carriage Ride 

Is there a more Cinderella-like experience than going on a private horse-drawn carriage ride through wine country? Temecula Carriage Company offers hour-long rides with optional upgrades like picnics, flowers, and chocolate-covered strawberries. 

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Spa Day

If your idea of romance is less active and more lounging, Temecula has beautiful spas at Pechanga Resort Casino and at South Coast Winery Resort in wine country. Both offer couples massages and have cabanas at their spa pools for private lounging. 

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Afternoon Tea at Corbeaux Wine & Tea House

Foodie couples should book a reservation at Corbeaux Wine and Tea House for their Afternoon Tea, where you can linger over sparkling wine and tiers of beautifully crafted tea sandwiches and house-made pastries.

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Visit the Speakeasy at Bella Vista

In the evening, sneak behind a bookcase into The Cilurzo Speakeasy at Bella Vista Winery. It has a moody vibe with wood-paneled walls and a grand piano. They’re open Friday and Saturday evenings for crafted wine cocktails and light bites. Call 951-676-5250 for reservations.                                          

Romantic Places to Stay

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Ponte Vineyard Inn

A little bit biased because I was married at Ponte Vineyard Inn, but it’s a beautiful spot with vineyard and lake views. It also has a lovely breakfast restaurant and is within walking distance to Ponte Winery and South Coast Winery. Guests also have tasting privileges at Ponte’s sister winery, Bottaia.

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Domaine Chardonnay

A French chateau-style bed and breakfast in wine country, Domaine Chardonnay is perfectly situated for touring the wineries but also offers couples privacy and exclusivity. Each suite has a private entrance and a private patio for taking in the scenery, and there are options to add in-room massage services.

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